Surviving the Holidays by Julie Cruz
This is something that helped me last year. Ingrid spent many a Thanksgiving at my house with our mothers. This past year of course she wasn't there. Ingrid's favorite flowers were pink roses. As fate would have it, just when we were missing her most, my son's friend showed up with a lovely bunch of pink roses. She made it after all.
Julie Cruz, NY, lost her friend Ingrid, age 32, on Swissair Flight 111, September 2, 1998.